Books you may find helpful


7 Principles for making Marriage Work– John Gottman
The Relationship Cure– John Gottman
10 Lessons to Transform your Marriage- John Gottman
Marriage rules – Harriet Lerner

After the Affair- Abrahms/Spring

Dance of anger – Harriet Lerner

Divorce busting – Harriet Lerner


I hate you don’t leave me – Jerold Kreisman (for BPD)
Children of the self absorbed  – Nina Brown
The verbally abusive relationship – Pat Evans
Women who love too much – Robin Norwood
Boundaries – where you & I begin – Anne Katherine
Stop walking on eggshells – Randi Kreger
Obsessive love – Susan Forward
Living with the passive aggressive male – Scott Wetzler
Relationship rescue – Phil Mcgraw
When anger hurts – Kirk Johnson
Anger kills – Redford Williams

Sexual & Emotional Abuse:

Betrayal of innocence – Susan Forward
Partners in recovery – Beverly Engle
The courage to heal – Ellen Bass
The emotionally abused woman – Beverly Engle


The Power of Your Subconscious Mind  – Joseph Murphy
The 4 agreements – Miguel Ruiz
Feeling good – David Burns
You can heal your life – Louise Hay
Necessary losses – Judith Viorst
Simple abundance – Sarah Breathnach
Self esteem: a proven technique – Matthew Mckay

Happiness is a serious matter- Dennis Prager


When pregnancy fails – Susan Borg
Helping the stork – Carol Vercollone
Adopting after infertility – Patricia Johnston
Miscarriage: medicine & miracles – Bruce Young
Trying again – Ann Douglas


Breaking addiction – Lance Dodes
Willpower is not enough – Arnold Washton

Struggle for Intimacy-Janet Woititz


The Power of Your Subconscious Mind  – Joseph Murphy
Feeling Good – David Burns
The Worry Solution: Using Breakthrough Brain Science to turn Stress into Confidence- Martin Rossman
The anxiety & phobia workbook – Edmund Bourne
When panic attacks – David Burns

The Untethered Soul- Michael Singer

From Panic to Power- Lucinda Bassett

Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents- Reid Wilson

Eating Disorders

Overcoming overeating – Jane Hirschman
When food is love – Janine Roth
Binge eating – Christopher Fairburn

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